At a recent wedding, the bride revealed that her mother-in-law arrived in a floor-length halterneck white dress that looked like a bridal gown, prompting the groom to write her a letter of protest.

Bride Calls Mother-in-law Narcissistic

The bride posted the images online, labeling her mother-in-law "narcissistic" and saying she wore "a wedding dress to our wedding," acted oddly and "could not give me the day."

She added that the mother-in-law has four sons and that she married the eldest, whom she described as the family's pride and joy.

Groom's Letter and Reaction

According to the bride, the groom eventually stood up to his mother, sending her a letter that listed ways she had shown the bride "disrespect."

She noted that the mother-in-law has not replied to the letter for several days and that the couple feels they have finally broken free.

Online Comments

Social media users quickly shared their opinions. One user, a mother of three sons, called the photos "creepy af" and suggested a wellness check. Another asked why the bride did not kick her out, while a third remarked that the dress was literally a wedding dress. One commenter said they would photoshop the dress to a different colour.

Wedding Guest Dress Etiquette

Brides.com states that a mother-of-the-bride should choose a gown that complements, but does not match, the wedding party's colours. Examples include silver or grey with black cocktail dresses, or navy with cobalt-blue bridesmaids.

Historically, before 1840 Western brides wore their best Sunday dress in various colours. Queen Victoria's 1840 wedding popularised white gowns, turning the colour into a symbol of wealth and purity.

Wedding Guest Outfit Etiquette

If you are unsure about what to wear for a wedding, consider these guidelines:

  • Folklore claims red at a wedding implies an affair with the groom.
  • Avoid casual attire such as jeans and flip-flops.
  • Steer clear of any shade that could be mistaken for white or cream.
  • Most agree that cleavage should be covered.
  • Wearing white is a major no-no unless you are the bride.